Hi, guys i want your opinion on something, i want to lose my virginity, become a man, im 15 and i think its right, but i want your opinion, is it okay or is it too soon?

Also my family think i spend too much time flirting with girls?, and that its taking too much of my life so they deactivated my account on facebook, could you give your opinion on that, because i dont think its fair that they did that and didnt tell me before hand which i think is horrible, they should tell me if there gunna do something before they do it, and in which case im home schooled, and i have no other friends to talk to now until i go to college in 4 years, so that is CERTAINLY not fair, that my chance of getting a girlfriend dead, and pretty much my life dead for 4 yeas now.
its going to be boring horrible and going to in my opinion SUCK ASS its hard to say but i honestly dont undersyand what i do wrong, im never allowed out of my house to go anywhere so im done for now, there's only 1 thing i can do now but its risky, and that is go back to school but im easlily annoyed and if i go i might end up been depressed again, but if i dont then when i go to college im going o be a soicla disaster, either way my chance of meeting anyone are dead and buried now, so i might aswell enjoy the boredom because its going to be a LONG time, and im dead inside until then, most of my friends have gone now and ive got NO ONE but this site now, and they'll probably f****n block this, so hell im gunna be bored for a LONG time coming.

Grizzly, i think that is possible the stupidest thing i have EVER seen.

Seriously.

Virginity has nothing to do with "being a man" and i think the very fact that you think age is a concern is proof in itself that you are too young.

First off, sex should be with someone you trust or love (in my opinion), so instead of asking an internet forum about it, ask that special person. and if you haven't got that special person, then why are you even asking in the first place?

And surely, "being a man" is about standing up for what you believe in, defending people - your friends - from threats and being more mature to think that "being a man" is important.

I used to have a lot of respect for you, but i'm beginning to change my mind, its this type of mindset that i hate most. meh, maybe i'm being too hard on you, but i'll guess i'll just have to wait and see.

Short answer? - you should wait. until you know your ready.

Well...


word.

Respect, man i am ready ive been ready for a long time, i wont give in to peer pressure or anything like that, its my choice when i want to lose it i just wnat to ask people what there opinion is, all my life i have done things my just charging in and doing it, something like this i should slow down and think for once, besides the chances are in gunna be at least 20 before i do anything like that anyway because im done for with any sort of relationship now, my family has blocked my communication to the outside world and ive got nothing now, ive always been classed as the cool one at school to be honest, people said i was "safe" which is british chav slang for cool, but i do things that single me out all the time! First off I ALWAYS" wear hats or hoods because im ugly and i like hiding my face, second im unusally good at flirting which i do alot and i overuse and i look weird, and third, i get angry over little stupid things, but thats what ruined my reputation, and now im homeschooled, i wish i could have my repuation back or even go back to school BUT the school i will go to is actually the oughist school in my area, the police have to inspect the place because people HAVE been known to carry knifes in the school, so if i quit home schooling i go there, and i never get along, EVER, my best guess is wait until the 6 week holidays and join the rest of the people that go to the school so i wont get singled out then, thats my best guess on the situation, as for the virginity, been one of the cool kids means losing it, its like an initiatiion, but i'll never forgive myself for losing it with some other person, its a tough cookie im in but i'll probably make the good desicion in the end.

I've ignored these matters, but I gotta speak up on this one.

Seriously, you may think you're ready, but judging by that attitude, nay. You're still a long ways off.

Being down on yourself is gonna hurt a lot worse than whatever anyone says.


Betakrogoth's right. Being a man is not about how many notches you get on your bed, rather it's about standing up for yourself, your beliefs. Whining about how "Ugly I am" or "My life is dead" isn't helping your case.

I am sorry, but I need to drive this home.

Quit whining about how your life sucks, no one's life is perfect and neither is yours. Move on.

Also, just a side point, it would be nice sometimes not to have to read a massive wall of text everytime someone disagrees with you... We've already gone over the punctuation thing - and this is coming from someone whos dyslexic! (I had to look up the spelling of dyslexic.)

Yes, your life sucks, but i guareentee theres someone out there with a worse life, for starters, YOU HAVE INTERNET! Seriously grizz, just try to look on the bright side of life more.

Edit: Don't see this as a personal attack griz, its not, its just that the walls of text can be irritating to read and obstruct your point more than help it.

If you have to ask someones opinion on it, your not ready, just horny.
When the time is right it will present itself.Patience

Are you for real??



Dude, WTF?..



I would have to agree, you've missed the point completely, and stating that being 'cool' is the most important thing, that is, I'm sorry, a very strong indication of immaturity...

Just relax, don't rush into stuff and try to be cool, that by the way, IS giving into peer pressure...

I'm starting to see the reasons behind your problems...

If you want to be a man, stop thinking if other people will find your actions cool or not, stand up for yourself, and stop pretending like you're a victim.....

Not to be hurtful, I just think you could use the advice...

This thread makes me :lol::lol:

Look, you wanna lose your 'V'?

Stop wasting your time asking for advise on the web, and actually talk to a girl, Your not going to get laid by posting it on the internet,

At least not in a good way...

Mal

P.S >.>

Yes, this was kinda a joke, i already know what to do if i ever get the the situation
and i arnt desperate im going to wait for the girls to come to me.

The minecraft forum, AND wiki are down

Its apparently a massive hardware failure, and it'll take another day to fix by the look of it.

So you trolled us then?

DIDN'T SEEM LIKE A JOKE AT THE TIME. IT DIDN'T. IT REALLY DIDN'T.

Hark, the vast empty silence hath filled this thread.

Not funny.

Lol, sounds like he was serious, and now he is just playing it cool to hide the troll fail.



Oh and, quit your whining, that's all you seem to do,

You want to become a man?

Then grow up.

EXCUSE ME, it was a joke, it may have got a bit out of hand but hey, a jokes a joke, and secondly i lost my virginity last year, so i made this to see how you guys would react, turns out you reacted badly, so im sorry guys if i tricked you but it was a test, and turddrive Everytime i make a mistake with anything you have to join in and stir things up, if your going to comment on my topics please know what your talking about first rather than make stupid rips on me, because i can rip just as hard

Im not proud of myself for losing it early at all, but when people come towards you and say your not a man gets to me, because if i want to be a man i'll be one, right now i'll be a stupid teenager who wants to live a good life, been a man means getting a job having a family and looking after that family, and im not ready for that at 15, so get it straight.

I am surprised this thread got any replies, as I can not even find the words to express how much I do not care about your personal life, or any random internet Joe's for that matter.



No. You were not joking, you lied to the readers of this thread. There is a big difference there. Only bad jokes actually need to be explained. But I have a different theory here: you decided to change your story exactly because people reacted badly to the original one, and you want to spare yourself the embarrassment and come out as the winner. This is a very easy strategy to pull off behind the cover of anonymity.

This whole thread is your mess. Now I want you to bring a closure to this matter and apologize for your shenanigans before I put this behind bars.

I say that magic word too many times, if i say it all the people on this website will just look at me and laugh and i wont blame them, Fine, im sorry i lied, but i do sometimes need to bring my personal life to matter simply because its so damn boring, its everyday like the other day, i dont feel like a human being anymore more like a dead zombie walking around.

thats what i wanted to say but i started talking about the future, thats what i do, i look towards the future not in the past, so im sorry if i lied, and turddrive please dont comment on this topic because you'll only say some shit like, hahahahahaha this made me lol or something, and im not in the mood for it right now.

I don't like the way this is turning out
I don't like the way your trying to control everything griz
I don't like the way you speak to turddrive
I don't like this thread anymore


And for that reason, i'm out.